Empathy is one of the key foundational life skills that makes up what is called Emotional Intelligence. It is part of how "we get along" and "cooperate" with others as well. If you don't have empathetic listening skills, it will hold you back in life, and if you have a personal injury case, your lawyer needs to be at a high level with it; especially if your case goes to jury trial!
Empathetic listening skills start when you meet your injury lawyer. Your injury lawyer needs to be able to communicate your injuries effectively. So, listening to you as an injured person and what you had to overcome from your injury case is essential. If your injury lawyer is not a good listener, then he or she will have a difficult time communicating your harm and losses to others. This will also help your injury lawyer prepare you as a witness for your injuries when you are required to undergo a deposition in case your injury claim goes into a lawsuit. After that, it helps in preparing you for any mediation to settle a case before trial, and then ultimately, it helps in preparing you for a jury trial.
Look for Empathetic Listening When Selecting a Personal Injury Lawyer
There is a direct symbiotic relationship between you and your injury lawyer when it comes to empathetic listening skills, and those skills start with your lawyer but end with you if your case goes to jury trial.
So, I would say empathetic listening is utilized in the following hierarchy in a typical personal injury case:
1. Meet your injury lawyer for the first time and every other time during the course of your case so your lawyer can effectively communicate your harms and losses to you and others.
2. Preparing you for your deposition so you can effectively communicate deposition defense questions.
3. Prepare for mediation so you can effectively respond to any mediator's questions and your lawyer can effectively communicate your harms and losses.
4. Preparing you for your jury trial so you can effectively communicate to any cross-examination questions, and your lawyer can effectively communicate your harms and losses from jury selection through trial and into closing arguments.
A San Diego personal injury lawyer cannot effectively communicate your harms and losses without knowing how to listen to you. He or she must "step inside your shoes" in order to communicate what you went through. Your lawyer must get to know you as a human being first, then as a client second. Make no mistake. This is a communication skill. There are some lawyers who are good at it, mediocre at it, and some who are simply not good at it. That is okay. You will find that most successful trial lawyers are very good listeners and understand the importance of this "empathetic listening" skill.
This also holds true in sales. No salesperson can effectively sell without having the ability to listen to the person they are trying to close. A salesperson needs to be able to listen to the other person's needs, wants, and desires. Likewise, a good trial lawyer needs to be able to listen to jurors in jury selection on an injury case to make sure he or she is picking the right jury for a particular injury case. Those jurors have needs, wants, and desires, too. Just like an injured client has needs, wants, and desires. It all starts and ends with effective communication, and being able to empathize with another is a crucial foundational communication skill.
Speak With an Experienced San Diego Personal Injury Lawyer Today
If you’ve suffered a personal injury that was caused by another party’s negligence, The Law Office of Mark C. Blane is here to help. Our California personal injury lawyer understands the impact an accident can have on your life, and our legal team will work hard to win compensation for your medical costs, lost wages, and pain and suffering.
If you still have questions on how empathetic listening skills can impact your personal injury case, please feel free to reach out to me anytime. I make myself available for questions like these every single day, and I would be more than happy to see if I can help you. My phone number is 619.813.7955. Stay strong, Attorney Mark
